I was eager to escape Birmingham, now I’m thrilled I came home

Joseph Mungenast
Joseph Mungenast

Todays guest columnist is Joseph Mungenast.

When I left Birmingham at 18, I didn’t imagine I’d come back after college.

Like many young people, I was eager to escape the place I’d always called home.

The idea of a bigger city with more opportunities, excitement, and a faster pace was appealing.

Birmingham, in my mind, was too slow, too small, too divided. I left for college at Auburn University with dreams of moving to a different city one day.

My time at Auburn proved to be incredibly formative. College is a unique 4 year window where everyone around you is in the same stage of life. Everyone has more free time than they will ever experience again.

This combination leads to the quick formation of friendships and community, and I was fortunate to form great relationships in college. My four years at Auburn led me to believe that community and deep friendships were easy to come by.

As my time at Auburn progressed, I still felt the draw to a larger city that most college students in our state experience. I watched as older friends graduated and moved away, some to larger cities and some back home to Birmingham. I listened to their experiences in their respective cities and began to notice a trend.

The folks that I knew who moved back to Birmingham talked about how much they loved the pace of life in the city. The folks that I knew who moved away to bigger and “better” cities mentioned how lonely life could be, and how challenging it was to establish community.

I am not saying that big cities make it impossible to find friends or establish community. I do believe it is far more challenging than it is in Birmingham. And I am not saying that Birmingham is a sleepy little town with nothing going on.

What I am saying is that Birmingham offers a superior pace of life relative to the average big city in the US, along with a great business ecosystem. This is what surprised me most about moving back.

In Birmingham, young professionals have the opportunity to climb the corporate ladder, launch their own businesses, or pursue a fulfilling career. Whichever path they choose, Birmingham has the resources of a big city, with the community feel of a small town.

In Birmingham, there’s time to breathe, to reflect, and to grow. The idea of building a life here doesn’t feel like a race against the clock. Instead, it feels like a journey where community plays a central role.

Birmingham’s residents, especially younger people like me, are incredibly passionate about making this city better. Whether it’s through supporting local businesses or continuing to revitalize our downtown area, there’s an energy here that feels like it’s only just beginning.

I have also come to appreciate Birmingham’s complex history. Growing up, I didn’t always understand the weight of the city’s past—the struggles, the triumphs, the moments of deep division and even deeper resilience. But as I’ve matured, I’ve learned to recognize the significance of this history and how it shapes the city’s present.

From its role in the Civil Rights Movement to its industrial past as the “Pittsburgh of the South,” Birmingham’s history isn’t one of simple success or failure. It’s layered and rich with lessons that still resonate today.

Birmingham’s history is part of what makes it such a special place. The old, iron-clad buildings in the downtown area, the historic neighborhoods, the landmarks like the 16th Street Baptist Church—they all tell stories of hardship, perseverance, and change.

But it’s not only about the past. I have watched the city grow for over 20 years. The city continues to be revitalized as new life gets breathed into old spaces.

This intersection of old and new is one of the things I love most about Birmingham. It’s a city that embraces its history but isn’t afraid to reinvent itself.

The people here are proud of their roots, but they also acknowledge the scars of the past and the lessons that have accompanied them.

I hope more young people will choose to move to Birmingham, experience the superior pace of life, and accelerate the progress we have already made as a city.

Joseph Mungenast is a commercial insurance and bond broker with Marsh McLennan Agency. He and his wife Caroline met at Auburn and reside in Homewood.

David Sher is the founder and publisher of ComebackTown.  He’s past Chairman of the Birmingham Regional Chamber of Commerce (BBA), Operation New Birmingham (REV Birmingham), and the City Action Partnership (CAP).

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8 thoughts on “I was eager to escape Birmingham, now I’m thrilled I came home”

  1. Thank you Joseph for sharing your thoughts. I love that the “next generation” is picking up the mantle!

    P.S. Beware the naysayers. You will hear from them. Just keep the Outward Bound moto in mind:

    “We are better than we know. If only we can be brought to realize this, we may never again be prepared to settle for anything less.”

  2. Joseph, thanks for sharing your thoughts. Birmingham is not a small city in reality. It is a beautiful city and a great city. I am from Blount County and we consider BHM as a big city. I live in the Atlanta metro area. I am sure you have motored up the road from Auburn to Hotlanta many times. First off, please stop mentioned the civil rights area holding BHM back. Second of all , please tell me how many people are white on the Birmingham City Council.? How many residents of Homewood , Mountain Brook and How many in Birmingham voted for Trump? How many watch The View every day? How many thought Penny was guilty of murder?
    It truly amazes me that Oneonta , Homewood, Warrior, Blountsville, Cleveland and all the other suburbs don’t rush to merge with Birmingham and from a Birmingham Metro Area.
    I know you were told Whites are holding Birmingham back. Whites hate Blacks. All Whites are Republicans and hate Blacks . All Blacks vote for Democrats. Things are changing … none of this is true. I believe the Hispanics, Indians, Whites and Blacks will wake up one day and look in the mirror . Skin color will not matter. We will be intelligent enough to elect government officials that serve ALL the people in the greater Birmingham Metro Area. Think I’m a racist? Sure sounds like it, doesn’t it? I am not but think what you want. I leave you with this thought…
    Birmingham will thrive when Indians, Euro Americans, Hispanics , African Americans , Alabamians ALL have seats on the Birmingham City Council and equal opportunity to hold city, state and federal jobs.

  3. https://www.al.com/news/2024/12/huntsville-is-the-applebees-of-alabama-people-react-to-birmingham-rivalry-with-states-biggest-city.html?fbclid=IwZXh0bgNhZW0CMTEAAR3isQyTluIOENEESnQi8vwAdByMzTu68v6Gn32T3QyHPKonMEzuiDq5RFo_aem_KJriokTRVlSGVCfxr56_fA

    How does Huntsville fit this paradigm? Smaller than Birmingham but growing faster. As a young professional, is it harder to make friends and network—as an outsider—in a city where many young people are from elsewhere (Huntsville) than in a city where you didn’t grow up but many of those around you did (Birmingham)? I’ve lived in both but am too many years beyond the young professional state to comment now.

  4. I have found the opposite. I’ve found it easier to find friends in cities where people are not from there because they need you more. In Birmingham, for me at least, friend groups are already well established and they often have family around. Living in an area where there are many outsiders makes everyone find new community and you rely more on each other.

    Some people just don’t do well away from home or their safety bubble. I’ve seen this a lot. Birmingham people often move to the big city and they don’t try. It’s almost like they’re intimidated and sad to be away from home. That’s understandable. I’ve seen them not give the new place a good shot and they move home within a year and feel and immediate sense of home and security. That’s pretty normal. But i would not say that Birmingham itself is just naturally more welcoming and friends are easier to make.

  5. I too graduated from Auburn. Moved home to join a family business and when it was sold moved to Atlanta and then Chattanooga. I found Atlanta easy to find friend groups and Chattanooga hard to do the same. My theory is cities with a rapidly expanding population like Atlanta where natives are few foster that spirit while cities where natives are the majority do not. Just another way of looking at societal norms.

  6. Great article Joseph, but as much as you praise Birmingham you do not live in Birminghm, you live in Homewood, there is a big difference in the two cities.

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