Hoover parents, is this best for our kids?

Hunter Strickler
Hunter Strickler

Today’s guest columnist is Hunter Strickler.

It’s tough being a parent.

On nearly every topic related to kids (including the one in this column), I find myself with many more questions than answers.

Though my experience with youth sports is limited to Hoover and baseball,  parents in other OTM communities like Homewood and Vestavia Hills have told me they are wrestling with similar trends across youth sports.

“Travel ball is ruining our country,” Hoover resident Ben Short told me recently. “Coach Short” (as I know him) is a former All-American pitcher at Alabama, a 1991 New York Yankees draft pick, a former college baseball head coach, and the father of accomplished high school and college baseball players.

I hear some version of this sentiment over and over again from my peers and former teammates who have kids navigating youth sports these days.

While the business of youth sports has ballooned to a $20 billion industry, participation in youth baseball (ages 7-17) in the U.S. has declined by more than 40% since 2002 (according to the National Sporting Goods Association).

But it wasn’t always like this.

My youth baseball experience in Hoover was very nearly perfect. On any given spring Saturday in the 1990s, this was my plea to my parents:

“Drop me off at the ballpark the moment it opens. Don’t pick me up until they turn out the lights.”

It didn’t take much convincing for my mom and dad. They wanted to be at the park all day almost as much as I did. In those days, it felt like the whole city was there. The ballpark was where community building happened. The park served as a sort of central hub for the city of Hoover, the de facto social networking platform of my youth.

Thirty years later, I realize how formative those spring days were in shaping my childhood. Even today, I trace many friendships back to those sunny days sipping slushies and playing wall ball at Hoover Central and East ballparks.

Back then, we weren’t hustled out of the park and into “elite” or “select” teams before we reached our 10th birthday. All the way through the 8th grade, the best coaches in our community coached a combination of the most and least talented kids in regular old park ball. Only after we hoisted the park ball championship trophy did we turn our attention to forming the All-Star teams to compete against the best teams from other local parks, including our formidable arch nemesis, the Rebels of Vestavia Hills.

The result of a system that put an emphasis first on park ball and then on All-Stars was a vibrant local park and a healthy blend of competition and community. The late bloomers had time and space to develop. There was sufficient talent density to keep the better kids engaged in competitive park ball before transitioning to ultra-competitive All-Stars.

Park ball didn’t dilute the quality of my youth baseball experience. It enhanced it.

Somewhere along the way, we decided to rush our kids through every stage of athletic development based on the idea that our kids are too advanced for age-appropriate things like tees and pitching machines. We’re in a hurry to send them off to something bigger and better while missing the fact that the best things are sometimes right in front of us.

But the on-the-field results aren’t measurably better. Travel ball doesn’t produce more competitive youth or high school teams in the Over the Mountain area. By 13 years old, we were state champs. We finished runner up at the World Series.

The next year, 1998, the late legendary Vestavia Hills High School Coach Sammy Dunn took his former park ballers from the Vestavia youth leagues and turned them into Baseball America’s National Champions on his way to 9 state titles in 10 years.

The golden era of high school baseball in our area coincided with the heyday of park ball in the Birmingham suburbs.

There aren’t more college baseball players coming out of our area than a generation ago. So what are we chasing? What is the end goal? What was wrong with park ball again?

My park ball coach, Coach Tommy, was a baseball savant. He taught me how to play pepper and how to execute a hit and run. He bought me a copy of Ron Polk’s Baseball Playbook and made our entire team memorize the infield fly rule and recite it at practice like a Bible verse.

Thank God travel ball didn’t exist back then. If it did, Coach Tommy’s impact would have been limited to roughly 10-12 kids, about the size of the travel ball silos that exist today. Instead, he impacted easily ten times as many kids of varying skill levels over the years. He made us all better. We paid him a grand total of $0.

Before travel ball, we packaged up the best youth baseball experiences – the best coaches, the best facilities, the best resources, and we delivered them through the park ball experience to all the kids in the community, regardless of skill level.

My parents did not have to spend thousands of dollars for me to receive elite instruction. We did not have to travel all over the Southeast or play year-round. In fact, we rarely had to leave our own city. It was part of what the community offered to us through our local Parks & Recreation board. Everything we needed to compete and develop as kids and athletes was right in our backyard.

It’s a shame the new system doesn’t offer the same community ballpark experience to my kids, nephew, and nieces once they hit 9 or 10  years old.

The old system wasn’t broken. It didn’t need to be fixed. It needed to be preserved and embraced. Ask my old teammates. Ask Coach Short.

Travel ball culture may not be ruining our country, but is it best for our community? Is it best for our kids?

Hunter Strickler is a Birmingham native. He is the co-founder of the Clutch! game day parking app and serves as the Director of Venture Operations at Harmony Venture Labs, a Birmingham-based venture studio and venture equity firm. Hunter is an avid sports fan and can be found cheering on his two daughters in basketball and softball or his alma mater, the University of Alabama.

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10 thoughts on “Hoover parents, is this best for our kids?”

  1. I agree with much of what’s said here. No experience with Hoover. But Avondale had a fine little ball program back in the day. We played in the Spring (no Fall ball), everyone was from not too far away, our parents chatted with each other and got their social needs met. Community building was a natural byproduct of a local program. I don’t think I was ever an amazing softball player, but I got exercise and made friends and experienced being part of a team. And that is enough.

  2. Good article but there’s a huge piece you’re missing. Parent involvement, volunteerism and investing in the city you live in. Like you said, back then everyone wanted to be there. Many wanted to be involved to make the park a place worth spending time at. Now you have to beg people to coach, to work concession stands, to pull the trash after a game. Somehow our parents 40 hour a week job was not near as taxing as ours is and “we just don’t have time”. Now, parents just want to pay their money and let someone else do the work. Gone are the days where any kid that wanted to learn the sport had plenty of coaches willing to spend their time to make ALL the players better. Now the good coaches that have a small amount of success, cherry pick the top 2-3 from each team and pull them out of the park to make a travel team. No time to develop the late bloomer…they have rings to win. Now, it’s hard to blame the coach 100%. They can go play at a facility where they don’t have to have a fundraiser just to have money to keep the lights on, they don’t have to cut the grass and they never have the thrill of cooking a chicken finger in a concession stand again. They just get to coach. If only we could find another generation of men/women that wanted to see everyone succeed and had an interest in seeing their community programs thrive. Surely I can pay someone else to care about that.

    1. Very true. Also, everyone is busy shuffling their children to the other travel sports that never used to exist so heavily: academy soccer, multiple AAU basketball teams, 2-4 hours of dance class a day. All in the name of “maybe making the 7th grade team.” Add on a 40 hour job, and who has time to “volunteer”.

  3. I 100% agree! We have the beet memories of our boys playing park ball! I get misty eyed every time I pass Heardmont Park!

  4. As a Papa to my four grandchildren some of my happiest days & nights are spent at the Homewood Baseball fields. I love seeing my grandchildren having fun while learning most valuable life lessons from playing baseball. To me youth baseball is all about community & building relationships that will last a lifetime. Thanks to Hunter Strickler for his comments.

  5. I’m a volunteer Parks and rec vice president and a head coach of two travelball organizations. I like both rec ball and travelball but when people label each as ones better than the other its an opinion. REC ball has been push aside yes but how can you fault parents wanting the best for their children. People grow up and get involve with your local rec park and build something DONT keep tearing stuff down.

  6. Hunter, as you know, I’ve been involved with coaching at many levels for my entire life. Now retired! I started the Birmingham Basketball Academy in 2013 because of my knowledge of & frustration with the youth basketball scene (which is much worse than people know).

    Your personal story here is so on-point and articulate. And it’s a dang shame. I have no idea what it will take to reverse course: maybe nothing…

    I don’t know if I’ll ever do it, but I’ve gathered enough info over the last few years to write a book. The most extreme response I’ve seen is that there are certain experts out there who would like to see child labor laws applied to the adults who make so much money off these kids.

    As you know, the insane part is that so few scholarships are available. Parents could take all the money they spend on travel ball, invest it in a college fund, and GUARANTEE a scholarship!

    This is, as my daughter often says, a First-World problem. Too much money and time. And a totally perverted assault on the American Dream.

    I’ll finish with a quote from a recent ESPN piece, “Oklahoma softball star Jocelyn Alo became the sport’s best hitter by leaving it entirely.”
    Tim Keown ESPN
    “…the youth-sports industrial complex, where many enter but few emerge.”

    Thanks for this fine piece!

  7. If anyone knows of a place where a 13-year-old girl that LOVES softball with her whole heart can play, please let me know. She is worried that there isn’t a place for her once she turns 13.

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